How About This Idea?

Christian Buck sitting on one of his benches.

This story starts out at Roundtown Elementary School in York, PA. It was meant to address a situation that is all too common among young (and older) students. Not all children are outgoing and bubbly. For some it can be quite a challenge making friends. There are those who are naturally introverted and shy; there are those who wear clothing different from that of other children on the playground. And then there is bullying, which picks up on those differences and can make school a place of torment.

Into this picture, inject one 8-year-old boy named Christian Buck. He started out with one bench that was designated the "Buddy Bench". It was for kids who were looking for someone to play with or who didn't have friends. Kids were taught that it was okay to want to make friends and to play with another child. It was also okay for other kids to invite a kid on the bench to play, talk, or join in the fun.



The bench was financed by the Parent-Teacher Organization. It has become a valuable tool to teach children kindness, that all it takes sometimes, is just one act. It also provides a way for shyer kids to signal their desire for friendship or a play companion when they might not know how to ask.

The "Buddy Bench" has proven to be rather popular among the students. It has helped formerly lonely students to develop friendships, to feel a sense of belonging. Those who are more outgoing have learned how valuable it is to include others in their activities. The whole concept became so popular, in fact, that a second bench was added, for the secondary and charter school that share the same facilities.

Group of students from Parchment School District with their bench.

Oh, by the way, it didn't end there. Other schools have picked up the idea. In fact, there is a website where those interested in this idea can find out more - CHRISTIAN'S BUDDY BENCHES. Sometimes, even the youngest children can get some really great ideas!

Material for the article came from the Ashland DAILY PRESS.

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